Thursday, July 31, 2014

On the Runway

I realized I never (attempted we're just going to add attempted when photos are concerned now) posted photos from our fashion show Wednesday. Traditional Chinese costumes are definitely impressive. 


First the group photo.  

Then our lovely emperor and empress, Jonathan and Jade.


They're the perfect example of NSLI-Y kids, boring and stuck-up.  


Just kidding! Actually everyone on this trip is incredibly vibrant and the variety of backgrounds makes for interesting conversations. 

Egg also tried on the emperor costume.  His height and bright blue shoes made it kind of amusing.  


Be a man! Olivia and Alex showing off some soldier garb.


The costumes were excruciatingly hot so some of us just settled for the wigs.  In the photo left to right Summer, Colleen and Me



I mean I did dress up.  It was just a long afternoon.  


That's Katie in the photo with me.  

For some of us (*cough*Makea*cough*) the afternoon was so unbearably long, that we started doing Gollum impressions.  



I have some 200 photos of Fashion Show stuff so this is just the tip of the iceberg.  Also side note with the photos, in China people take a lot of oddly posed pictures.  I mean there is a peace sign in almost every picture.  We're copying the locals so there are peace signs and hand hearts and just in general a whole lot more goofy pictures.  We are also taking so many more selfies, although most of those are instigated by our teachers. 


Summer and Deng Lao Shi (the hipster teacher)

Tong Lao Shi (my teacher) is in the blue

Hopefully these work.  I'm collecting the ones from my previous post to post again.  If these don't go through I might have to do a test post to find the proper method.  

Monday, July 28, 2014

The Pursuit of Happiness


Last Sunday (the 20th yes I'm that far behind), my host mother, Candy, Katie, Dian Dian and I went for a walk in the awesome part nearby our house.  The park is named Nan Hu Gong Yuan by the way.  I just learned that yesterday but I figured it was important.  It was a fairly standard thing.  Candy and I always go on a walk after dinner.  The sky for some reason was really pretty.  Candy has a fascination with the sky that in this case I was thankful for because otherwise I would have missed it (We had a real in depth conversation one day about our favorite nature things.  Mine were the stars, clouds and lakes/rivers.)

 

There was a movie playing in the courtyard of the apartment complex when we got back.  I was expecting some Chinese movie.  It definitely wasn't a Chinese movie.  The movie was dubbed so all the characters were speaking Chinese but it still seemed like an odd choice.  The movie was The Pursuit of Happiness.  Right when we walked in they were at the part where Will Smith was questioning how Thomas Jefferson knew to put the phrase "the pursuit of happiness" instead of just happiness.  (In actuality, Jefferson didn't come up with the phrase.  He had something similar but Benjamin Franklin changed it because pursuit of happiness sounded better.  Jefferson was always bitter about that and from then on whenever someone asked he would send two copies of the Declaration of Independence, his and the final.)  For some reason, this touched me.  I stopped and thought for the first time in a long time if I was really happy.   I mean I'm in a completely different culture, only understanding things a very limited portion of the time and I was now sharing my host family with another student. 

 

It didn't take long to realize, that although at times I may be frantic and confused I was happy here in China.  I really love Xi'an.  It's the type of place that after I'm fluent I would come to happily.  It's also a quiet enough city that I could almost imagine myself living here at some point.  (And plus I'm not sure I'll be able to give up some of the food.)  I also know that I've had so many marvelous experiences here.  I've eaten a Chinese sugar candy horse during the year of the horse.  I've watched a Chinese Lion Dance in China.  I've played two traditional Chinese musical instruments.  I've made dumplings and climbed one of the most dangerous mountains in the world. 

 

Okay, I'll amend that. I've climbed part of one of the most dangerous mountains in the world.  Hua Shan really is incredible.  Our day started bright and early with the bus leaving at 6:50.  I was absolutely exhausted.  Besides the whole getting next to no sleep before midterms, I was up later than I wanted to be Friday night.  First Katie and Wei Lao Shi were there.  Wei Lao Shi stayed a long time, and I couldn't very well go to bed with her there.  And then I had to empty out some of the drawers to make room for Katie.  In my room, there was a wardrobe and two bedside tables.  Katie's room is traditional Chinese style, which meant the bed is rock hard and there are no drawers.  So I cleared all my stuff out of the two bedside tables.  It isn't like I'm messy (although Wei Lao Shi might have a slightly different impression as I was cleaning out my backpack when she came into my room.  I might be messy at home but everything here is very specific.  The house is spotless and I'm still a guest). It's just everything has gotten very spread out in the three weeks that I've been here.  So it was a late-frustrated night. 

 

Dian Dian really cheered me up on the car ride to school.  It took her a while to warm up to me, but Saturday she got in the car and hopped right on my lap so she could stick her head out the window.  Katie looked slightly jealous.  She's an only child but has two sheep dogs. I'll admit it, at the time, I felt a little smug.  It had taken Dian Dian forever to warm up to the idea of me, but now I was part of the family and Katie was the outsider. 

 

I like being around Dian Dian.  She doesn't expect anything except someone to rub her tummy.  She doesn't care if I mix up verbs or forget how to say certain vegetables.  She just accepts it.  Of course I still have to speak to her in Chinese if I want her to listen to me, but I'm more than happy to do that. 

 

On the two-hour bus ride, I talked a little bit to Summer, but mainly I slept.   When we finally got to the mountain.  There was a bit of confusion.  There was a mix up with our tickets and so we needed to give them all our IDs.  I had a photocopy of my passport but others didn't have nearly as much.  We were lucky everyone was able to pull out at least a school ID.  (Lucky because we were specifically told to always have our passport photocopy on us but never any other American identification.)

 

After that fiasco, we got on our second bus of the day.  It was a small little bus and the driver drove like a maniac up the narrow mountain roads.  It was like our own personal roller coaster.  There was lots of screaming and a few kids thought they were going to be sick.  I actually really liked it. These drivers drive up the road roughly 30 times a day every day and there aren't any accidents I can see.  It's fairly safe.  I even tried to videotape the ride back, but that driver was very calm.  The footage of the mountains is still good though. 

 

My teacher, Tong Lao Shi is the one in the green jacket.

 

Then we took a cable car up to one of the lower peaks of the mountain.  It was really an amazing ride.  Roughly eight minutes to take in the scenery.  This mountain looks like something out of a movie.  He Lao Shi (she was my group's chaperone) agreed that it easily could have been the site of some Kung Fu movie with warriors running along the bamboo at the base of the mountain. You could also use the eight minutes to see all the stairs you would have needed to climb if you started at the bottom.  There are some 4,000 stairs in total.  Summer and I agreed that one day we want to come back and start from the bottom.  

 

Another thing about the stairs.  All my teachers kept saying we went "mountain climbing." I have to disagree.  We climbed up a whole bunch of stairs.  Everything was just stairs.  While I'm not entirely complaining, it still didn't quite feel like a hike. 

 


Summer and I at the top of Hua Shan.  The hat is my host sister's. I've sort of claimed it.  The sun is so hot and it's not frilly like a lot of the hats sold here.  Plus it's really grown on me.

 

 

Colleen on Hua Shan.  These are just a few of the 125 pictures I took on the mountain.  It was really breathtaking. 

 

The mountain also has a lot of those locks, like the kind where lovers will lock them on bridges (I think it started on a special bridge in France). 

 

 

We were at Hua Shan most of the day, which meant we had to bring a sack lunch.  I wasn't really expecting much.  I had gone with Candy to buy some "hamburgers" from KFC.  I include the quotation marks because in China, hamburger really means chicken sandwich.  To my utter joy, I actually had a cheeseburger for lunch and not only that it had something that tasted like bacon on it.  (I'm not going to go as far as to call it bacon but it tasted decent.)  I never realized how much I missed a good old American hamburger until that moment.  I was so happy, I did the unspeakable.  I took a selfie.  So here it is, folks, Katie, Myself and our beautiful cheeseburgers. 

 

Okay, I've spent a lot of time on Hua Shan and I have an entire week to cover, but it was an incredible trip.  I do however have one last story that I'm going to post here because otherwise I'm afraid I'll forget.  You may have noticed from my pictures, but all the NSLI students are wearing matching t-shirts.  They have English written right on them.  I mention this because one of my classmates, Aaron, saw a very attractive person at Hua Shan and he pretended to be Chinese so he could take a selfie with them.  Aaron looks Chinese and he spoke in painfully awful English.  Chinese people like to take selfies with wai guo ren anyway, so his scheme worked and he walked away before the poor foreigner could realize what had happened.

 

After we got back from Hua Shan, Katie and I went to dinner and had my favorite food, yang rou pao mou. We also took the time that was just us to work through our issues in English and explain everything.  It was definitely much needed. 

 

Sunday, we went to one of my favorite places in Xi'an, the Quchang Hotel Swimming Pool. I think it's a little sad how much I love this pool, but it is a really nice pool.  I was actually there for some three and a half hours.  Candy had to leave for school and Katie had to go pick up her things from her old host family.  It was either stay at the apartment by myself in the unbearable heat or stay at the pool.  Needless to say, I stayed at the pool.  I had some fun too.  Besides swimming laps (and trust me I swam a lot of laps), I had a few conversations with the locals.  The least interesting one was in English with a guy who had studied in England.  He was surprised to see foreigners at the pool.  Katie and I were apparently the first he had seen.  I found that really weird since this is a very nice hotel that even has a Western style buffet.  Shouldn't that attract tourists? 

 

My favorite conversation (and the only one I initiated) was with an older woman in my lane.  It was about kickboards.  I asked what it was called and where I could find one. I walked away from the conversation with some new vocabulary and a kickboard to borrow. 

 

I also had a "conversation" with a bunch of Chinese men.   I understand they were complementing my swimming but not much else.  They didn't speak the standard dialect, so I was slightly more lost than I normally was. 

 

I spoke with an adorable little 7-year-old boy.  He was so nervous about talking to me.  His encouraged him.  I had seen the boy watching me for some time so it was interesting to finally be able to talk to him.  We spoke a mixture of Chinese and English.  I could understand most of what he was saying, but he decided to repeat things in English for some reason.  But really absolutely adorable.  He likes to swim but he won't ever be as good as me (his words not mine.  I rejected the complement and told him that with practice I'm sure he'll be incredibly fast.)  He also likes Ping-Pong, the color red and beef. 

 

After swimming, we went out for hot pot.  Then we went on the walk I mentioned earlier.  All in all, it was a good weekend. 

 

On Monday, we all went to a Chinese restaurant for a tea ceremony.  It was really cool.  It also fed my tea infatuation.  We tried six different types of tea.  We drank really small glasses of each.  You're supposed to drain the cup in three sips (well not quite drain, you're supposed to leave just a little left, so that you're not rude). 

 

They also gave us food and not just the traditional watermelon either.  I say traditional because watermelon is eaten all the time.  Watermelon is the solution to everything.  You're hot.  Eat Watermelon.  You're thirsty.  Eat watermelon.  You're visiting today.  Eat Watermelon. 

 

We had bao zi and nan guo bing.  Nan guo bing is a type of pumpkin pastry.  They're so good.  They taste a little like a donut but not as greasy. 

I also tried Chinese hazelnuts for the first time.  I'm telling you now; one of the things hidden in the depths of my checked bag is going to be a back of Chinese hazelnuts.  They taste so different from American hazelnuts.  They're sweeter with a richer taste.  I've always liked hazelnut chocolate, but I could eat Chinese hazelnuts for desert every night and probably never complain. 

 

And now because I feel like I've gone on and on about the glorious food, here's a picture of the actual tea ceremony. 

 

Nothing much happened Tuesday.  It was 108 degrees and so we didn't do much of anything.  That was a bit disappointing because we were scheduled to do an activity at a bookstore.  I was looking forward to going back there and I had enough money to buy the Chronicles of Narnia book with the awesome cover too.  The power was out at our apartment so we stayed at the school.  When we got home the power was thankfully back.  Later in the week, we wouldn't be nearly as lucky. 

 

You've already heard about Wednesday.  So I will take the time to mention someone who should have shown up on this blog much earlier.  The NSLI-Y program has a rule for not touching any of the stray animals.  The rule however was not designed with a specific cat in mind.  There's one cat that has sort of adopted all the NSLI kids. He'll come up to us on the way to lunch and affectionately rub himself against our legs.   Makea started out by calling him Mr. Meow Meow.  This is a rather vocal cat so the name made sense. Later, we found out the cat's name was actually Meow Meow from one of the teachers.  So yeah, Makea's psychic.  Recently though, the cat had another name change.  He is now Chairman Meow. It was going to happen at some point.  There are pictures of Chairman Mao everywhere and he's on all the money.  

 

 

Makea being a rebel and petting Chairman Meow.  

Thursday, our class made jiao zi (dumplings).  It was really fun.  Some of mine looked fine, but a few were really lopsided.  I was working at a table with Alex, Olivia and Makea.  Let's just say they weren't so happy with me taking pictures. 

  


 

The jiao zi making process eventually turned into a flour war.  Despite the fact that the room was full of teenagers, it was actually Deng Lao Shi who started it.  Pretty soon the only ones who were flour free were the ones sitting at Wei Lao Shi's table. 

 

Summer hit Alex particularly hard. 

 

I wear my war paint with pride.

 

Michal and Aaron and their flour faces. 

 

The winner of the war would have to be Michal.  She ended up putting flour handprints on the back of Alex's shirt.

We didn't just spend all our time goofing around though.  We still made some delicious jiao zi. 

 

 

Nothing taste better than what you make yourself, even if it's not nearly as pretty as it could be. 

 

When we got home after this exciting day, we realized our power was out again.    This time it did not come on until the next evening around eight.  We got home when it was fairly dark already and there were no candles in the apartment.  Katie and I were home alone because Candy had English class and our host father had some business thing.  I used my computer as a light to study as long as I could.  But finally, I gave up and went to bed.   All things considered I actually did really well on that test.  I even got a dragon fan because I've been improving. 

 

Okay, now I have a favor to ask.  Katie and I are trying to come up with a way to thank our host family.  We were thinking of cooking a big American dinner, because they liked the spaghetti so much and they made mashed potatoes again the other day. (Side note: When I come home, I might want to eat mashed potatoes with chopsticks all the time.  It's so much fun.)  I need some ideas though.  I literally only have a stove with two burners.  We have to plan pretty far in advance if we want to find the right ingredients. If anyone has any ideas (preferably including recipes), please leave a comment. 

 

Also I might be able to get my hands on the recipe for bao zi.  I'm not entirely sure though.  

Saturday, July 26, 2014

Pictures Maybe

So I think I might have figured out the posting  pictures problem.  This is my test post for that.  I'd really appreciate comments on if they show up so I know whether or not I can do this in the future.  


Taken on the excruciatingly long plane ride.  Look how far we've come and we still have about two hours on this flight.  


The others crashed in the Beijing Airport after our flight was delayed but I just couldn't sleep, despite being up for nearly 27 hours at that point. It's okay I slept on the plane ride to Xi'an


My first traditional Chinese meal and my Wai Gong.  Those white bread like things are Bao zi.



Chinese Village


Candy and her grandparent's fields


Funny English sign on all the escalators at this huge mall where we bought the ingredients for spaghetti.


Makea playing the er hu.  A traditional Chinese Musical Instrument. 



Me at the City Wall on the trip of our own after I was sick on the 4th of July.



Birthday Party NSLI-Y style.  And of course no birthday party is complete without hula hooping.


Wei Lao Shi attempting to Hula Hoop.

And now the KTV pictures: 

And then we Americanize the KTV with Dancing


Hopefully all these photos work and I'll be able to update with photos now 

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

An Unexpected Post

I know there is a lot I have to fill you in on.  There's Hua Shan.  More swimming.  A Tea Ceremony After school Monday.  A 108-degree day. And of course the Katie situation. 

 

Unfortunately today, I don't have enough time to do all that.  I'm still sleep deprived, so it's really only the fact that I was completely inspired by today's activity that I'm writing at all. 

 

Today, we had a fashion show with traditional Chinese costumes.  It was really fun and I have some awesome pictures.  Jade and Jonathon looked absolutely awesome in their Tang dynasty emperor/empress costumes.  Sarah looked like Princess Peach in this pink courtier dress.  Everyone dressed up and basically took silly photos.  I tried on a soldier costume, which didn't really fit, and a set of courtier robes. It was fun but not the reason I wanted to post today. 

 

After Culture Class, we had our weekly RD meeting.  Wei Lao Shi and He Lao Shi have a topic for us to discuss that will help us better understand and reflect on our time in China. 

 

Then Noah, Sarah, Jade and I ventured across the street to buy rou jia mo (a Xi'an "snack" that is called the Chinese Hamburger. It's really good, although this place was only so-so compared to Wai Po's.)  We were going to volunteer at a soup kitchen later and so wouldn't be getting home until around seven. 

 

The soup kitchen we visited, the Yellow River Soup Kitchen, was the first of it's kind in China.  For some reason, volunteering or even just helping someone in need is frowned upon in China.  Wei Lao Shi posted an article for us to read before we went about the "bystander problem" in China.  The Chinese people put a lot of emphasis on guan xi (relationships).  There's this idea with guan xi that you always trade favors and the favors you return should be bigger than the ones you were given.  This concept nullifies the idea of community service because why bother to form a relationship with someone who can't repay the favor?   The article is http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/worldviews/wp/2013/10/24/chinas-bystander-problem-another-death-after-crowd-ignores-woman-in-peril/?tid=pm_world_pop

 

The Yellow River Soup Kitchen was founded by a foreigner almost 9 years ago.  It was literally the first soup kitchen in China.  It's nearly impossible to become a nonprofit organization in China as the government monitors everything all the time.  The Yellow River Soup Kitchen tries to avoid any problems by doing no advertising or trying to raise awareness in any way.  Everything is word of mouth.  I mean they're legal, but it's still best to draw as little attention as possible. They provide dinner Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays and organize different activities on the Weekends.  They have a building where people come to eat and they have teams of people delivering food to the homeless who can't make it there.  Every penny (should this be every Yuan) goes directly to helping the community.  Everyone's a volunteer and works another job including Tony, the founder who's either Australian or English (I pride myself on my ability to pick out accents but I couldn't quite identify it. Some of the students were saying he sounded slightly Irish, but it definitely wasn't Irish.)

 

We didn't even get to volunteer there tonight.  I mean we washed a crate of peaches for dinner, but there was a miscommunication and dinner didn't start until 7, when we had to leave.  It was still an incredibly eye opening experience.  In China, being hungry is so much worse than America.  It means that you have absolutely no family because the Chinese value system demands that you always care for your family.  Food is so much cheaper.  And besides this one soup kitchen and a few State run programs through out China, there is no help.  You're considered a complete flaw in society and people act like you don't exist and no one offers help. 

 

There aren't religion organizations to fall back on either, because religion in general is frowned upon in China.  Religion was literally on the topic of things to not bring up at any cost.  Any nonprofit organization with even a tiny connection to a religious group has no chance of passing the government codes.  The Yellow River Soup Kitchen is not officially connected to the Church, but they have a building the Church built on the property. 

 

As a Catholic, it's been weird being separated from my religion (well not separated so much, but there is this feeling that it's forbidden. And religion as I mentioned earlier is a banned topic.) I know some of the other kids have been having some problems too.  The two Mormon kids in my class will talk all the time and one girl (her Dad is a Southern Baptist Minister) went on a rant the other day about how to tell the difference between a real Christian and a fake Christian. Her tone the entire time was extremely condescending as if she was absolutely perfect.  Yes there are people who identify themselves as Christians but don't practice every little detail of the religion.  There are people like that in every religion.  I'm sorry she just really got on my nerves especially when she continued this rant when we were in an actual Church. 

 

Okay there I said it.  I had the pleasure of being in an actual Church today.  It was incredible.  According to Colleen, the alter was the one on the Catholic Answers Page about Christianity in China.  I was just so overjoyed.  As I knelt in a pew, I had my favorite psalm/hymn running through my head.  (It's "This is the Day!"  in case any one really wanted to know.)

 

I wish I could have taken pictures, but my camera was at the school, as it wasn't allowed for volunteering.  The church was very interesting.  The Ten Commandments were written on pillars through out the church in English and in Chinese. 

 

There were few people in the Church besides all the NSLI kids.  There was one man sitting on the right hand side of the church about halfway up the rows of pews praying the rosary.  He would cough loudly whenever the NSLI group was getting too loud but he just continued praying. 

 

Colleen and I ended up praying the rosary together.  It felt so good to finally be able to pray aloud with someone else. 

 

We had spent some time looking at the different paintings.  There were just a few, one of someone who was clearly Mary, but the others were different Saints.  It was really a beautiful church.  It felt calming to see the different images from home painstakingly painted on the ceiling. 

 

I also received an image of a statue of Mary and Jesus that stands in Taiwan.  He Lao Shi talked to a man who was from Taiwan and visiting the church.  She in turn gave it to me.  It's got some Chinese writing on the back of the photo.  It's hard to read.  I can recognize the word for Catholic and that's about it.  I'm still so thankful to have the picture though.  I'm also so thankful that I have Colleen.  It keeps me from feeling so isolated. 

 

Wei Lao Shi encouraged us to come back at a later date in small groups.  Katie and I definitely want to.  I also want to get there just a little early so I can visit the church again.  It was a good day. 

 

I'll write more soon about the past few days. It's just a lot to cover and we're so incredibly busy.