The blog of a Minnesotan high schooler as she travels to Xi'an, China for the summer.
Thursday, July 31, 2014
On the Runway
Monday, July 28, 2014
The Pursuit of Happiness
  Last Sunday (the 20th yes I'm that far behind), my host mother,  Candy, Katie, Dian Dian and I went for a walk in the awesome part nearby our  house.  The park is named Nan Hu Gong  Yuan by the way.  I just learned that  yesterday but I figured it was important.   It was a fairly standard thing.   Candy and I always go on a walk after dinner.  The sky for some reason was really pretty.  Candy has a fascination with the sky that in  this case I was thankful for because otherwise I would have missed it (We had a  real in depth conversation one day about our favorite nature things.  Mine were the stars, clouds and  lakes/rivers.)
There was a movie playing in the courtyard of the apartment  complex when we got back.  I was  expecting some Chinese movie.  It  definitely wasn't a Chinese movie.  The  movie was dubbed so all the characters were speaking Chinese but it still  seemed like an odd choice.  The movie was  The Pursuit of Happiness.  Right when we  walked in they were at the part where Will Smith was questioning how Thomas  Jefferson knew to put the phrase "the pursuit of happiness" instead of just  happiness.  (In actuality, Jefferson  didn't come up with the phrase.  He had  something similar but Benjamin Franklin changed it because pursuit of happiness  sounded better.  Jefferson was always  bitter about that and from then on whenever someone asked he would send two  copies of the Declaration of Independence, his and the final.)  For some reason, this touched me.  I stopped and thought for the first time in a  long time if I was really happy.   I mean  I'm in a completely different culture, only understanding things a very limited  portion of the time and I was now sharing my host family with another student.  
It didn't take long to realize, that although at times I may  be frantic and confused I was happy here in China.  I really love Xi'an.  It's the type of place that after I'm fluent  I would come to happily.  It's also a  quiet enough city that I could almost imagine myself living here at some  point.  (And plus I'm not sure I'll be  able to give up some of the food.)  I  also know that I've had so many marvelous experiences here.  I've eaten a Chinese sugar candy horse during  the year of the horse.  I've watched a  Chinese Lion Dance in China.  I've played  two traditional Chinese musical instruments.   I've made dumplings and climbed one of the most dangerous mountains in  the world.  

Okay, I'll amend that. I've climbed part of one of the most  dangerous mountains in the world.  Hua  Shan really is incredible.  Our day  started bright and early with the bus leaving at 6:50.  I was absolutely exhausted.  Besides the whole getting next to no sleep  before midterms, I was up later than I wanted to be Friday night.  First Katie and Wei Lao Shi were there.  Wei Lao Shi stayed a long time, and I  couldn't very well go to bed with her there.   And then I had to empty out some of the drawers to make room for  Katie.  In my room, there was a wardrobe  and two bedside tables.  Katie's room is  traditional Chinese style, which meant the bed is rock hard and there are no  drawers.  So I cleared all my stuff out  of the two bedside tables.  It isn't like  I'm messy (although Wei Lao Shi might have a slightly different impression as I  was cleaning out my backpack when she came into my room.  I might be messy at home but everything here  is very specific.  The house is spotless  and I'm still a guest). It's just everything has gotten very spread out in the  three weeks that I've been here.  So it  was a late-frustrated night.  
Dian Dian really cheered me up on the car ride to  school.  It took her a while to warm up  to me, but Saturday she got in the car and hopped right on my lap so she could  stick her head out the window.  Katie  looked slightly jealous.  She's an only  child but has two sheep dogs. I'll admit it, at the time, I felt a little  smug.  It had taken Dian Dian forever to  warm up to the idea of me, but now I was part of the family and Katie was the  outsider.  
I like being around Dian Dian.  She doesn't expect anything except someone to  rub her tummy.  She doesn't care if I mix  up verbs or forget how to say certain vegetables.  She just accepts it.  Of course I still have to speak to her in  Chinese if I want her to listen to me, but I'm more than happy to do that.  
On the two-hour bus ride, I talked a little bit to Summer,  but mainly I slept.   When we finally got  to the mountain.  There was a bit of  confusion.  There was a mix up with our  tickets and so we needed to give them all our IDs.  I had a photocopy of my passport but others  didn't have nearly as much.  We were  lucky everyone was able to pull out at least a school ID.  (Lucky because we were specifically told to  always have our passport photocopy on us but never any other American  identification.)
After that fiasco, we got on our second bus of the day.  It was a small little bus and the driver  drove like a maniac up the narrow mountain roads.  It was like our own personal roller coaster.  There was lots of screaming and a few kids  thought they were going to be sick.  I  actually really liked it. These drivers drive up the road roughly 30 times a  day every day and there aren't any accidents I can see.  It's fairly safe.  I even tried to videotape the ride back, but  that driver was very calm.  The footage  of the mountains is still good though.  

My teacher, Tong Lao Shi is the one in the green jacket. 
Then we took a cable car up to one of the lower peaks of the  mountain.  It was really an amazing  ride.  Roughly eight minutes to take in  the scenery.  This mountain looks like  something out of a movie.  He Lao Shi  (she was my group's chaperone) agreed that it easily could have been the site  of some Kung Fu movie with warriors running along the bamboo at the base of the  mountain. You could also use the eight minutes to see all the stairs you would  have needed to climb if you started at the bottom.  There are some 4,000 stairs in total.  Summer and I agreed that one day we want to  come back and start from the bottom.  
Another thing about the stairs.  All my teachers kept saying we went "mountain  climbing." I have to disagree.  We  climbed up a whole bunch of stairs.   Everything was just stairs.  While  I'm not entirely complaining, it still didn't quite feel like a hike.  

  Summer and I at the top of Hua Shan.  The  hat is my host sister's. I've sort of claimed it.  The sun is so hot and it's not frilly like a  lot of the hats sold here.  Plus it's  really grown on me. 

Colleen on Hua Shan.   These are just a few of the 125 pictures I took on the mountain.  It was really breathtaking.  
The mountain also has a lot of those locks, like the kind  where lovers will lock them on bridges (I think it started on a special bridge  in France).  

We were at Hua Shan most of the day, which meant we had to  bring a sack lunch.  I wasn't really  expecting much.  I had gone with Candy to  buy some "hamburgers" from KFC.  I  include the quotation marks because in China, hamburger really means chicken  sandwich.  To my utter joy, I actually had  a cheeseburger for lunch and not only that it had something that tasted like  bacon on it.  (I'm not going to go as far  as to call it bacon but it tasted decent.)   I never realized how much I missed a good old American hamburger until  that moment.  I was so happy, I did the  unspeakable.  I took a selfie.  So here it is, folks, Katie, Myself and our  beautiful cheeseburgers.  

Okay, I've spent a lot of time on Hua Shan and I have an  entire week to cover, but it was an incredible trip.  I do however have one last story that I'm  going to post here because otherwise I'm afraid I'll forget.  You may have noticed from my pictures, but  all the NSLI students are wearing matching t-shirts.  They have English written right on them.  I mention this because one of my classmates,  Aaron, saw a very attractive person at Hua Shan and he pretended to be Chinese  so he could take a selfie with them.  Aaron  looks Chinese and he spoke in painfully awful English.  Chinese people like to take selfies with wai  guo ren anyway, so his scheme worked and he walked away before the poor  foreigner could realize what had happened. 
After we got back from Hua Shan, Katie and I went to dinner  and had my favorite food, yang rou pao mou. We also took the time that was just  us to work through our issues in English and explain everything.  It was definitely much needed.  
Sunday, we went to one of my favorite places in Xi'an, the  Quchang Hotel Swimming Pool. I think it's a little sad how much I love this  pool, but it is a really nice pool.  I  was actually there for some three and a half hours.  Candy had to leave for school and Katie had  to go pick up her things from her old host family.  It was either stay at the apartment by myself  in the unbearable heat or stay at the pool.   Needless to say, I stayed at the pool.   I had some fun too.  Besides  swimming laps (and trust me I swam a lot of laps), I had a few conversations  with the locals.  The least interesting  one was in English with a guy who had studied in England.  He was surprised to see foreigners at the  pool.  Katie and I were apparently the  first he had seen.  I found that really  weird since this is a very nice hotel that even has a Western style  buffet.  Shouldn't that attract  tourists?  
My favorite conversation (and the only one I initiated) was  with an older woman in my lane.  It was  about kickboards.  I asked what it was  called and where I could find one. I walked away from the conversation with  some new vocabulary and a kickboard to borrow.   
I also had a "conversation" with a bunch of Chinese  men.   I understand they were  complementing my swimming but not much else.   They didn't speak the standard dialect, so I was slightly more lost than  I normally was.  
I spoke with an adorable little 7-year-old boy.  He was so nervous about talking to me.  His encouraged him.  I had seen the boy watching me for some time  so it was interesting to finally be able to talk to him.  We spoke a mixture of Chinese and  English.  I could understand most of what  he was saying, but he decided to repeat things in English for some reason.  But really absolutely adorable.  He likes to swim but he won't ever be as good  as me (his words not mine.  I rejected  the complement and told him that with practice I'm sure he'll be incredibly  fast.)  He also likes Ping-Pong, the  color red and beef.  
After swimming, we went out for hot pot.  Then we went on the walk I mentioned  earlier.  All in all, it was a good  weekend.  
On Monday, we all went to a Chinese restaurant for a tea  ceremony.  It was really cool.  It also fed my tea infatuation.  We tried six different types of tea.  We drank really small glasses of each.  You're supposed to drain the cup in three  sips (well not quite drain, you're supposed to leave just a little left, so  that you're not rude).  
They also gave us food and not just the traditional  watermelon either.  I say traditional  because watermelon is eaten all the time.   Watermelon is the solution to everything.  You're hot.   Eat Watermelon.  You're  thirsty.  Eat watermelon.  You're visiting today.  Eat Watermelon.  
We had bao zi and nan guo bing.  Nan guo bing is a type of pumpkin  pastry.  They're so good.  They taste a little like a donut but not as  greasy.  

I also tried Chinese hazelnuts for the first time.  I'm telling you now; one of the things hidden  in the depths of my checked bag is going to be a back of Chinese hazelnuts.  They taste so different from American  hazelnuts.  They're sweeter with a richer  taste.  I've always liked hazelnut  chocolate, but I could eat Chinese hazelnuts for desert every night and  probably never complain.  
And now because I feel like I've gone on and on about the  glorious food, here's a picture of the actual tea ceremony. 
Nothing much happened Tuesday.  It was 108 degrees and so we didn't do much  of anything.  That was a bit  disappointing because we were scheduled to do an activity at a bookstore.  I was looking forward to going back there and  I had enough money to buy the Chronicles of Narnia book with the awesome cover  too.  The power was out at our apartment so  we stayed at the school.  When we got  home the power was thankfully back.  Later  in the week, we wouldn't be nearly as lucky.   
You've already heard about Wednesday.  So I will take the time to mention someone  who should have shown up on this blog much earlier.  The NSLI-Y program has a rule for not touching  any of the stray animals.  The rule  however was not designed with a specific cat in mind.  There's one cat that has sort of adopted all  the NSLI kids. He'll come up to us on the way to lunch and affectionately rub  himself against our legs.   Makea started  out by calling him Mr. Meow Meow.  This  is a rather vocal cat so the name made sense. Later, we found out the cat's  name was actually Meow Meow from one of the teachers.  So yeah, Makea's psychic.  Recently though, the cat had another name  change.  He is now Chairman Meow. It was  going to happen at some point.  There are  pictures of Chairman Mao everywhere and he's on all the money.   
 Makea being a rebel and petting Chairman Meow.
Makea being a rebel and petting Chairman Meow.  
Thursday, our class made jiao zi (dumplings).  It was really fun.  Some of mine looked fine, but a few were  really lopsided.  I was working at a  table with Alex, Olivia and Makea.  Let's  just say they weren't so happy with me taking pictures.  

  

The jiao zi making process eventually turned into a flour  war.  Despite the fact that the room was  full of teenagers, it was actually Deng Lao Shi who started it.  Pretty soon the only ones who were flour free  were the ones sitting at Wei Lao Shi's table.   
Summer hit Alex particularly hard. 

I wear my war paint with pride. 

Michal and Aaron and their flour faces.  
The winner of the war would have to be Michal. She ended up putting flour handprints on the back of Alex's shirt.

We didn't just spend all our time goofing around though. We still made some delicious jiao zi.



Nothing taste better than what you make yourself, even if  it's not nearly as pretty as it could be. 
When we got home after this exciting day, we realized our  power was out again.    This time it did  not come on until the next evening around eight.  We got home when it was fairly dark already  and there were no candles in the apartment.   Katie and I were home alone because Candy had English class and our host  father had some business thing.  I used  my computer as a light to study as long as I could.  But finally, I gave up and went to bed.   All things considered I actually did really  well on that test.  I even got a dragon  fan because I've been improving.  
Okay, now I have a favor to ask.  Katie and I are trying to come up with a way  to thank our host family.  We were  thinking of cooking a big American dinner, because they liked the spaghetti so  much and they made mashed potatoes again the other day. (Side note: When I come  home, I might want to eat mashed potatoes with chopsticks all the time.  It's so much fun.)  I need some ideas though.  I literally only have a stove with two  burners.  We have to plan pretty far in  advance if we want to find the right ingredients. If anyone has any ideas  (preferably including recipes), please leave a comment.  
Also I might be able to get my hands on the recipe for bao  zi.  I'm not entirely sure though.  
Saturday, July 26, 2014
Pictures Maybe
Wednesday, July 23, 2014
An Unexpected Post
I know there is a lot I have to fill you in on.  There's Hua Shan.  More swimming.  A Tea Ceremony After school Monday.  A 108-degree day. And of course the Katie  situation.  
Unfortunately today, I don't have enough time to do all  that.  I'm still sleep deprived, so it's  really only the fact that I was completely inspired by today's activity that  I'm writing at all.  
Today, we had a fashion show with traditional Chinese costumes.  It was really fun and I have some awesome  pictures.  Jade and Jonathon looked  absolutely awesome in their Tang dynasty emperor/empress costumes.  Sarah looked like Princess Peach in this pink  courtier dress.  Everyone dressed up and  basically took silly photos.  I tried on  a soldier costume, which didn't really fit, and a set of courtier robes. It was  fun but not the reason I wanted to post today.   
After Culture Class, we had our weekly RD meeting.  Wei Lao Shi and He Lao Shi have a topic for  us to discuss that will help us better understand and reflect on our time in  China.  
Then Noah, Sarah, Jade and I ventured across the street to  buy rou jia mo (a Xi'an "snack" that is called the Chinese Hamburger. It's  really good, although this place was only so-so compared to Wai Po's.)  We were going to volunteer at a soup kitchen  later and so wouldn't be getting home until around seven.  
The soup kitchen we visited, the Yellow River Soup Kitchen,  was the first of it's kind in China.  For  some reason, volunteering or even just helping someone in need is frowned upon  in China.  Wei Lao Shi posted an article  for us to read before we went about the "bystander problem" in China.  The Chinese people put a lot of emphasis on  guan xi (relationships).  There's this  idea with guan xi that you always trade favors and the favors you return should  be bigger than the ones you were given.   This concept nullifies the idea of community service because why bother  to form a relationship with someone who can't repay the favor?   The article is http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/worldviews/wp/2013/10/24/chinas-bystander-problem-another-death-after-crowd-ignores-woman-in-peril/?tid=pm_world_pop
The Yellow River Soup Kitchen was founded by a foreigner  almost 9 years ago.  It was literally the  first soup kitchen in China.  It's nearly  impossible to become a nonprofit organization in China as the government  monitors everything all the time.  The  Yellow River Soup Kitchen tries to avoid any problems by doing no advertising  or trying to raise awareness in any way.   Everything is word of mouth.  I  mean they're legal, but it's still best to draw as little attention as  possible. They provide dinner Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays and organize  different activities on the Weekends.   They have a building where people come to eat and they have teams of  people delivering food to the homeless who can't make it there.  Every penny (should this be every Yuan) goes  directly to helping the community.   Everyone's a volunteer and works another job including Tony, the founder  who's either Australian or English (I pride myself on my ability to pick out  accents but I couldn't quite identify it. Some of the students were saying he  sounded slightly Irish, but it definitely wasn't Irish.)
We didn't even get to volunteer there tonight.  I mean we washed a crate of peaches for  dinner, but there was a miscommunication and dinner didn't start until 7, when  we had to leave.  It was still an  incredibly eye opening experience.  In  China, being hungry is so much worse than America.  It means that you have absolutely no family  because the Chinese value system demands that you always care for your  family.  Food is so much cheaper.  And besides this one soup kitchen and a few  State run programs through out China, there is no help.  You're considered a complete flaw in society  and people act like you don't exist and no one offers help.  
There aren't religion organizations to fall back on either,  because religion in general is frowned upon in China.  Religion was literally on the topic of things  to not bring up at any cost.  Any  nonprofit organization with even a tiny connection to a religious group has no  chance of passing the government codes.  The  Yellow River Soup Kitchen is not officially connected to the Church, but they  have a building the Church built on the property.  
As a Catholic, it's been weird being separated from my  religion (well not separated so much, but there is this feeling that it's  forbidden. And religion as I mentioned earlier is a banned topic.) I know some  of the other kids have been having some problems too.  The two Mormon kids in my class will talk all  the time and one girl (her Dad is a Southern Baptist Minister) went on a rant  the other day about how to tell the difference between a real Christian and a  fake Christian. Her tone the entire time was extremely condescending as if she  was absolutely perfect.  Yes there are  people who identify themselves as Christians but don't practice every little  detail of the religion.  There are people  like that in every religion.  I'm sorry she just really got on my nerves  especially when she continued this rant when we were in an actual Church.  
Okay there I said it.   I had the pleasure of being in an actual Church today.  It was incredible.  According to Colleen, the alter was the one  on the Catholic Answers Page about Christianity in China.  I was just so overjoyed.  As I knelt in a pew, I had my favorite  psalm/hymn running through my head.   (It's "This is the Day!"  in case  any one really wanted to know.)
I wish I could have taken pictures, but my camera was at the  school, as it wasn't allowed for volunteering.   The church was very interesting.   The Ten Commandments were written on pillars through out the church in  English and in Chinese.  
There were few people in the Church besides all the NSLI  kids.  There was one man sitting on the right  hand side of the church about halfway up the rows of pews praying the  rosary.  He would cough loudly whenever  the NSLI group was getting too loud but he just continued praying.  
Colleen and I ended up praying the rosary together.  It felt so good to finally be able to pray  aloud with someone else.  
We had spent some time looking at the different  paintings.  There were just a few, one of  someone who was clearly Mary, but the others were different Saints.  It was really a beautiful church.  It felt calming to see the different images  from home painstakingly painted on the ceiling.   
I also received an image of a statue of Mary and Jesus that  stands in Taiwan.  He Lao Shi talked to a  man who was from Taiwan and visiting the church.  She in turn gave it to me.  It's got some Chinese writing on the back of  the photo.  It's hard to read.  I can recognize the word for Catholic and  that's about it.  I'm still so thankful  to have the picture though.  I'm also so  thankful that I have Colleen.  It keeps  me from feeling so isolated.  
Wei Lao Shi encouraged us to come back at a later date in small  groups.  Katie and I definitely want  to.  I also want to get there just a  little early so I can visit the church again.   It was a good day.  
I'll write more soon about the past few days. It's just a  lot to cover and we're so incredibly busy.  










 





















